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Post by Natalie on Jun 18, 2019 20:38:58 GMT -6
My son has a teammate whose family is Jewish. I sat and talked with the mom a little bit tonight. I hadn't really visited with her much; she seems like a very nice lady. I really would like to discuss beliefs with her, but I am just not quite sure how to go about it. Any suggestions on what to start with? "So, I understand that you guys are Jewish..." then what?
I also don't want to come across as just trying to convert her.  I really would like to get to know her and possibly stay in contact after the season is over.
And please pray that I get a good opportunity to talk with her again.
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Post by boraddict on Jun 18, 2019 22:05:53 GMT -6
Natalie, just tell her that you enjoy her company and that you would like to stay in touch. Also, show an interest in her life.
I have a friend that is always getting on to me for not staying in contact. Yet to me it seems like I am imposing; but not to her. She loves people.
Be a friend first. My friend Clio believes in fairies. She really does. So I do not discuss scripture to any degree except in a third person context. Like, "Check this out Clio. You know that website that I told you about? Well, this guy Venge really thinks Christ was born in 2 BC. Really! Can you believe that? After I have spent so much time proving that Jesus was born in 3 BC. Sometimes I get too involved." She just listens and says something off hand like "some people do not get it."
Love you Venge. Love your friendship. Love your baby.
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Post by mike on Jun 19, 2019 6:34:33 GMT -6
Natalie, what BORA says is what will work. The Lord will lead the conversation. She will see your example as you live life in front of her. You also can generate opportunities to visit beyond the ballfield at some point.
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Post by Natalie on Jun 19, 2019 7:37:22 GMT -6
Thanks you two. I often feel that I have a hard time making new friends...I just don't really know how to make small talk. I tend to try and find people who like to talk. |
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Post by kjs on Jun 19, 2019 11:09:01 GMT -6
Natalie -- it appears from your comments on this site -- you are a gentling and warming soul -- who enjoys listening and understanding others point of view.
May I suggest doing the same thing in person....
Most people, if given the chance will speak of themselves and families for quite awhile.
Put your listening skills to work -- ask about her and her family ...
Ask about her recipes (if she is a good cook)....
Ask her how she coordinates her time ... with all the family activities .......
If your family does "cook-outs" -- ask if he and her family would like to come over for a cook-out ....
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Just be a listening friend first -- and then after awhile -- with God's leading move the conversations ... toward religion and proceed ....
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Post by Natalie on Jun 19, 2019 11:39:36 GMT -6
Thanks, kj. |
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Post by venge on Jun 19, 2019 13:16:24 GMT -6
My son has a teammate whose family is Jewish. I sat and talked with the mom a little bit tonight. I hadn't really visited with her much; she seems like a very nice lady. I really would like to discuss beliefs with her, but I am just not quite sure how to go about it. Any suggestions on what to start with? "So, I understand that you guys are Jewish..." then what?
I also don't want to come across as just trying to convert her. I really would like to get to know her and possibly stay in contact after the season is over.
And please pray that I get a good opportunity to talk with her again.
Read the book of Hebrews =P Paul knew how to talk to them. Don't start with Jesus or the NT. Only talk to them about the OT. That is the key. You know how to lead them to Jesus. When you get confident enough, Ask about Isaiah 53...=P Talk about how every man is a sinner (Genesis - the fall) We both believe the same thing. Then talk about how we cannot as man save ourselves from sin (required the shedding of blood) We both believe Then talk about but the blood of rams and goats can never save that's why its done yearly or else it would be done the first time. This will lead into Jesus....but there is more...much more...=P |
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Post by bondservant on Jun 21, 2019 11:38:28 GMT -6
My son has a teammate whose family is Jewish. I sat and talked with the mom a little bit tonight. I hadn't really visited with her much; she seems like a very nice lady. I really would like to discuss beliefs with her, but I am just not quite sure how to go about it. Any suggestions on what to start with? "So, I understand that you guys are Jewish..." then what?
I also don't want to come across as just trying to convert her. I really would like to get to know her and possibly stay in contact after the season is over.
And please pray that I get a good opportunity to talk with her again.
Like what KJS said ^ The best way is to just start asking detailed questions. Does she speak Hebrew? Ask her about the Fasts, Feasts & Festivals. I will be praying for you and this lady... and that God will lead, guide & direct your conversation. |
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Post by bondservant on Jun 21, 2019 11:40:41 GMT -6
Natalie -- it appears from your comments on this site -- you are a gentling and warming soul -- who enjoys listening and understanding others point of view.
May I suggest doing the same thing in person....
Most people, if given the chance will speak of themselves and families for quite awhile.
Put your listening skills to work -- ask about her and her family ...
Ask about her recipes (if she is a good cook)....
Ask her how she coordinates her time ... with all the family activities .......
If your family does "cook-outs" -- ask if he and her family would like to come over for a cook-out ....
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Just be a listening friend first -- and then after awhile -- with God's leading move the conversations ... toward religion and proceed ....
Best advice <3 |
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I really would like to get to know her and possibly stay in contact after the season is over.
